How do you bounce back from the brink of destruction? When your relationship feels like it's in quicksand and sinking fast, what do you do? How disheartening is it when you feel like you are about to turn the corner and get the clearance to go full steam ahead with your plans only to be derailed again and again, time after time?With relationships I have learned that this is often the case. You have faith things will get better, and they do but it's short lived. I have encountered in my relationship this very same occurence time and again. At one time I can say I placed the bulk of the blame on my mrs. We won't get into whether I was justified or not because the point is that's what I did. I in turn reacted based on that and now I'm carrying the bag of blame and I say wholeheartedly I'm in the wrong. She was wrong, I was wrong, we were wrong. Forget the reasoning behind it, the question is...how do you move past it?
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Sometimes being in a relationship is like playing a pro sport, you have to have a short, short term memory. We all have issues and we all make mistakes, if you continue to remember and dwell on them, progress can't really be made. The biggest thing I've learned is an apology isn't just words, it's a behavioral change. Keep working on the work.
I know exactly how you feel. I have always said I love you enough to let you go, but what happens when you don't want to let go?
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